How to consoling to have effect.

Still have some time as well. We see that people are suffering, and then close. We would like to own his solace. But do not know how to start and is not sure what we will speak to them. It's appropriate or not. Replace the word indicating of uncertainty, he may feel better to feel worse than ever. We must feel worse than the original error. If you are not sure. You will have one consolation. We have a way to. As you suggest.



First you go near him to sit next to him, you see the page. To show that they know. He really cares about you. If you can not go near his. May use calling cards or send a written message sent to any wire. To show that you still think he is.



Secondly, as soon listen to what they say to vent. You must listen to more speakers. If he has no mood to talk. Or is blubbering. You should wait patiently when they are ready to talk. You also need to listen intently. He should say sympathy. Show them the same as him and is ready to help him always. Important issues you need to keep their confidential. Not to take and when to speak. Will tell more than they really need help. Not to say futile promise you do not actually have. He will lose confidence in yourself.



Third, you must encourage them. Help them see the exit. He is worried about is that you need. Lets hope in his life. Do not just suicide. It is also his value to you. To his family and society with.



Finally. Help him decide the issue. By himself. You decide not to replace him. Need to be honored in his decision. And you must show sincerity. That will help him continue with his people is only as this will relieve suffering. And encouraged to fight to live indeed.


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